Why do people try to control me?

what wuld u do if u needed to do other stuff but other ppl made u stay at their house- said u cld stay but i wont force u but u felt forced... and they just make u stay for some werid reason and then dont call u for months and that same day u had an important thing to do.... why am i shitted?they also make u eat.... when u do not want to.... just so they feel good.